I have become one...

Now, how do you know if you're an "attraction junky" or a "love addict"?

1. When you begin a relationship, you feel a total emotional high. You can't sleep, can't eat, can't stop thinking about the other person.
2. You tend to fall in love extremely quickly. You overlook and/or ignore your partner's faults.
3. When you start dating someone, you often think that they are "the one."
4. Your relationships last only a few weeks or months.
5. If you've been with someone for a while, you find it easy to be tempted by someone new and different.
6. When you and your partner fight, it seems very life or death to you.
7. You stay in relationships because you need someone, not because you want them.
8. In relationships, you find yourself doing most of the work.
9. In relationships, you will do almost anything to stay together.
10. You become obsessed with people who have no romantic interest in you.

If you answer yes to the above... or even just some of it... then you can qualify as an attraction junky or a love addict...


If we had been together,it will be our 2nd month tomor...geesh times flying..

Left with 4 solid months before i head down under.

P.S: Ive got another surgery(most probably) coming up....

My wish for you...

Down with fever...

Cant talk to her like before...just gona gulp all feelings and thoughts down.I've made up my decision to treat her as a friend like how i used to...and its better that way...

It's all like a dream now....


Officially, Im SINGLE once again. =>


Down with fever...after a long long time.

P.S: Please cherish the moments people,for you wldnt want to regret not doing the things you have always wanted to do.

Before you leave,please fill in the blank ( _______ are root of all evil.)

In Pain..

Love without commitment is a blind-folded vacation..you wont know where you are, how far you have been and you wont know how to return...

As what MaC told me, you cant live with them and also w/o them...


Damn-ed life...

Meet-the-MP-for-1-Minute-Session

LOL.Singaporeans love to pay and pay for everything and anything. One classic example is my Dad.He has received 4 parking fines (*2 has been waived earlier this yr) plus a red notice(for those who are wondering,its a reminder CUM warning letter to tell you *LETS FACE IN COURT-Im GONA MAKE U PAY MORE..MUAHAHAHA!!!).Yeap so that makes it a total of 6 fines in an expanse of 5 months.

Fine states: Min sum to pay: $50 for illegally parking vehicle apart from the designated slot.

The officials i wrote/appeal in to didnt get what i said for countless number of times it seems.

My Dad ends work in the wee hrs on alternate weeks.So by the time he gets home,ALL the parking lots are taken up and you cannot expect him to park in another ZONE thats 2km away or for the matter of fact park at some SAFE FOR THE CAR wilson car parks.Its WEE hrs leh?..like 3am to 4am,he's super tired and definitely he *rushes home to get some good sleep.Why does he have to worry abt finding a proper parking lot where he pays *$75 every month to get the vehicle parked near our HOME. When u drive home,u see no lots,u want to get home fast...tell me..frankly what would u do? Park somewhere convenient or park in AMK OR JURONG and take bus home safely?lol.

Just met up with the MP or rather had a glance off him...all he told my dad about this matter- "I'll look into it,not to worry".

It was a 1 min conversation with the minister....how cool?


My case is still pending...

more updates coming soon.....

Random Pics from Taiwan '08

Doggie sayang..



Pole Dance in a train?


Taipei...


Taiwan's tallest buiding..101



View of taipei city from taipei 101


Doraemon with a CARROT???





CKS's ride..






CKS's ride -2



Waiting for the train...




Taiwanese Rally


More pics coming soon....

Change the thinking..

It will take just 37 seconds to read this and change your thinking.

Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room. One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs.His bed was next to the room's only window. The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back. The men talked for hours on end.

They spoke of their wives and families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, where they had been on vacation.Every afternoon, when the man in the bed by the window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could see outside the window.The man in the other bed began to live for those one hour periods where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and color of the world outside. The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake. Ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their model boats.

Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every color and a fineview of the city skyline could be seen in the distance.As the man by the window described all this in exquisite details, the man onthe other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine this picturesque scene. One warm afternoon, the man by the window described a parade passing by.

Although the other man could not hear the band - he could see it in his mind's eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed it with descriptive words.Days, weeks and months passed. One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths only to find the lifeless body of the man by the window, who had died peacefully in his sleep. She was saddened and called the hospital attendants to take the body away. As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if he could be moved next to the window.

The nurse was happy to make the switch, and after making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone.Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his first look at the real world outside. He strained to slowly turn to look out the window besides the bed. It faced a blank wall.The man asked the nurse what could have compelled his deceased roommate who had described such wonderful things outside this window.The nurse responded that the man was blind and could not even see the wall. She said, 'Perhaps he just wanted to encourage you.'

Epilogue: There is tremendous happiness in making others happy, despite our own situations.Shared grief is half the sorrow, but happiness when shared, is doubled. If you want to feel rich, just count all the things you have that money can't buy.

The origin of this letter is unknown, but it brings good luck to everyone who passes it on.

August 2008

Been some time.
Current updates/happenings for the month of August-

-GF's Bday 23th
-Comex IT show 29th/30th (list is up on next avail post)
-Payment for tuition fees and submission of acceptance offer
-Uncle's chalet @ chevrons 28th
-Aisah's engagement on 30th

Okay,im looking forward to the 23rd for now.Its my gf's 21st and ive gotten something that she've been eyeing for sometime.Hopefully noone else gets her the same gift that ive gotten her.
Oh yes please do not be surprised.I am still single but not available.To put it simple im in a relationship without any commitment.Yea the ego guy is sort of attached but not.LOL.Its complicated.Lets not go there.

Nevertheless,i'm happy this way.Many a times ive been labelled as a hard-person to comprehend.That i do completely agree but that doesnt make me weird.When i least expect changes,thats when it all starts to change my course of life.Hope its all worthwhile.

Good night people.

Turbulence on flight F-A-M-I-L-Y

My family is my strength.I am and will uphold it as it is and make sure it gets stronger.Family matters first than anything else.

Current*.Family's kinda troubled due to younger brother's behavior.He's been absent for 50 days and it has affected his grades tremoundously.Not to mention,its his first sem in poly.He was never a troublemaker or a rebellious kid.Had to leave work halfway to attend to his sch matters and to check on the progress.The underlying fact for his change throughout this 4 months seems to be one WORD-Friends.But nevertheless,he knows wat to do from now on and he knows where he stand.

Future* - Happy Ending